Videos shown at our relationship support groups on Zoom

Here’s a chronological list of videos used in our relationship support groups since the start of the COVID era in early 2020. The newest items are at the top.

You can see a list of our most popular multiple-week video series here.

Jump down to 2021 or 2020 videos


2022

2022 September 7 – mid-November • “How We Love” • Milan and Kay Yerkovich

Milan and Kay have requested that we not post sessions of this series online. See a list of the sessions, with an outline for each one. You can purchase the authors’/presenters’ materials from their web site at www.howwelove.com including the “How We Love” book.

2022 August 31 -September 4 • “Authenticity” • videos coming soon

2022 August 24-28 • “Difficult Conversations” • videos coming soon

2022 August 17-21 • “Self-Compassion

“The Three Components of Self-Compassion” • Kristin Neff • 7 min • view video

“Freedom Though Self Compassion” • Jack Kornfield • 6 min • view video

“Self Compassion” • The School of Life • 5 min • view video

“2 Minute Tip: How to Practice Self Compassion” • Kristin Neff • 2 min • view video

2022 August 10-14 • “Acceptance” • videos coming soon

2022 August 3-7 • “Four Habits of Successful Relationships” • videos coming soon

2022 July 27-31 • “Resilence

“Three Secrets of Resilient People” from Lucy Hone • 16 min • view video

“Stop Negative Self-Talk” from Steve Harvey • 4 min • view video

2022 July 13-24 • “Endings

“The Fear of Ending a Relationship” from the School of Life • 9 min • view video

“Necessary Endings” with Dr. Henry Cloud • 48 min • view videoview outline

“The Five Signs a Relationship Is Over” with Mel Robbins • 5 min • view video

2022 July 6-10 • “The Impostor Syndrome

“The Surprising Solution to Impostor Syndrome” with Lou Solomon • 21 min • view video

“Impostor Syndrome” from The School of Life • 7 min • view video

2022 June 29 / July 3 • “Envy

Overcoming Envy with Joshua Becker • 5 min • view video

Ode to Envy with Parul Seghal • 13 min • view video

Envy with Mel Robbins • 4 min • view video

The Uses of Envy from the School of Life • 3 min • view video

2022 June 8-19

An outline for these two sessions can be found here

“Recognizing Unsafe People” Part 2 with Dr. John Townsend. • 23 min • View video here

“Recognizing Unsafe People” Part 1 with Dr. John Townsend • 35 min • View video here

2022 April 20 through June 5

“Safe People” with Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend. Seven sessions. View videos and outlines, and download fill-in-the blank handouts, here

2022 April 13-17

“Love” • Alain de Botton (founder, The School of Life) • 20 min •  view here

2022 April 6-10

“Deaing with a Narcissist” • 43 minutes • Mel Robbins and panel • view here

2022 March 30 – April 3 • “Stop Your Negative Self-Talk

“Stop Negative Self-Talk” • 4 minutes • Steve Harvey • view here

“Change Your Negative Self-Talk by Renewing Your Mindset” • 14 minutes • Bruce Pulver • view here

Control Your Brain • 15 minutes • with Mel Robbins • view here

Overcoming Bad Inner Voices • 6 minutes • The School of Life • view here

2022 March 23-27

“How Not to Take Things Personally” • Frederik Imbo • 9m • view here

2022 February-March • “The Law of Happiness” with Dr. Henry Cloud

View all six sessions and download the related worksheets here

2022 January • “Starting Over: So Next Time Won’t Be Like Last Time” with Andy Stanley

View all four sessions and download the related worksheets here

– or view then individually –

Session 4: “Release It” • 42m • view here • worksheet here

Session 3: “Re-Think It” • 41m • view here • worksheet here

Session 2: “Own It” • 38m • view here • worksheet here

Session 1: “Three Myths of Starting Over” • 38m • view here • worksheet here

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Please check back soon for the videos shown in the second half of 2021!
They included:
“Who Am I?” December 16-20
“You and the Ex” December 8-12
“Birth Order and Relationships” December 1-4
“Survive and Thrive Through the Holidays” November 17-21
“How We Love” (eight weeks) Sept 15. – Nov. 14
“Overcoming Discouragement” September 8-12
“People-Pleasing” September 1-4
“Hustle for Worthiness” August 18-29
“Managing Anger” August 11-15
“Why Are Relationship so Hard?” August 4-8
“Dealing with Disappointment” July 28 – Sept. 1
“Love and Respect” (two weeks) July 14-25

2021 July 7-11 • “Making a Fresh Start

“Five Ways to Get Back on Track” • Fearless Soul • 9m • view here

“Eleven Things We Tell Ourselves” (excerpt from session 2 of from “Starting Over”) • Andy Stanley • 8 minutes • Coming soon!

“Reinvent Yourself” • Nathaniel Drew • 11m • view here

“Reset Your Mindset” • Mel Robbins • 11m • view here

2021 June 30 through July 3 • “Difficult Conversations

Crucial Conversations • Joseph Grenny (14:57) • view here

How to Have a Tough Conversation • Mel Robbins (4:49) • view here

How to Complain without Hurting your Partner • Dr. Julie Gottman (3:15) • view here

2021 June 10-30

Videos shown at our meetings on “Ten Questions to Ask,” “What Was I Thinking?” and “Self-Doubt” will be posted here soon

2021 February 10 through June 7

View videos from our “Safe People” series. You can also see sessions from our earlier Andy Stanley video series “Love, Dates and Relationships” here, or from our still-earlier three-week John Gottman series “Making Relationships Work” here

2021 starting January 6

Starting Over: So Next Time Won’t Be Like Last Time” • Andy Stanley • view here

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2020 starting November 25

Law of Happiness” • Dr. Henry Cloud • view here

2020 September 9 through October 28

Rescue Your Love Life” (about “dumb relationship attitudes”) • Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend • view here

2020 September 2-8

The Secret to a Healthy Relationship” • Les Parrott • https://youtu.be/czF5p43bo7o

2020 August 26 through September 1

Necessary Endings” • Dr. Henry Cloud • https://youtu.be/JGnP4MGFmEg

2020 August 19-25

“Staying Strong in the COVID Era” • four videos (not posted)

2020 June 17 through August 18

Our nine-week “How We Love” series – including the sessions on “attachment styles” – is not posted at this time

2020 June 10-16 • Theme “Dating”

“The Beautiful Truth about Online Dating” • Arun and Dawoon Kang (founders of dating site Coffee Meets Bagel) • 12 minutes • https://youtu.be/mRWPqwyukGY

“No More Bad Dates” • Evan Marc Katz • 19 minutes • https://youtu.be/T704le1D1ag

2020 June 3-9

“How to Not Take Things Personally” • Frederik Imbo • 18 minutes • https://youtu.be/LnJwH_PZXnM

2020 May 27 through June 2

“A Candid Conversation about Love, Sex and Dating” • Andy Stanley • 28 minutes • https://youtu.be/YPrKRiVdqcE

(See the four-week “Love, Sex and Dating” series at http://www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/lsd)

2020 May 20-26

“The Power of Vulnerability” • Brené Brown • 22 minutes • https://youtu.be/sXSjc-pbXk4

2020 May 13-19

“Make Stress Your Friend” • Kelly McGonigal • 14 minutes • https://youtu.be/RcGyVTAoXEU

“Blame” • Brené Brown • 3 minutes • https://youtu.be/RZWf2_2L2v8

2020 May 6-12

“Are You Dealing with a Narcissist?” • Mel Robbins and guests • 42 minutes • https://youtu.be/qLsJw0nhSiw

2020 April 29 through May 5

“Safe People” session 12 (“Learning to Be Safe”) • Dr. Henry Cloud • 16 minutes • https://youtu.be/_Z-_pOhhIMY (worksheet for this session at https://drrnetwork.files.wordpress.com/2018/01/handout_spw_ch12_2017-07a.pdf)

“Let Them Go” • Tyler Perry as “Madea” • Six minutes • https://youtu.be/CTPzXwNVc9g (transcript at https://sqadsurvivor.livejournal.com/14079.html)
(Fun but full of truths!)

2020 April 22-28

Inside the Mind of a Master Procrastinator • Tim Urban • 14 minutes • https://www.ted.com/talks/tim_urban_inside_the_mind_of_a_master_procrastinator

Six Reasons You Choose the Wrong Partner • School of Life • 7 minutes • https://youtu.be/rBRDaQTuBO8

2020 April 15-21

Define Your Fears Instead of Your Goals • Tim Ferriss • 13 min • https://youtu.be/5J6jAC6XxAI

2020 April 8-14

Love • Alain de Botton (founder, The School of Life) • 20 min • https://youtu.be/jJ6K_f7oSdg

2020 April 1-7

“Getting Stuck in the Negatives (and How to Get Unstuck)” • Alison Ledgerwood • 10 min • https://youtu.be/7XFLTDQ4JMk

“The Pail” • Burnett/Korman • 10 min • https://youtu.be/Uiry1_k1Zog
(Silly but relevant!)

2020 March 25-31

“The Gift and Power of Emotional Courage” • Susan David • 17 min • https://youtu.be/NDQ1Mi5I4rg

2020 March 18-24

“Emotional Mastery: The Gifted Wisdom of Unpleasant Feelings” • Dr. Joan Rosenberg • 15 min • https://youtu.be/EKy19WzkPxE